Some thoughts~~

Lately many things happened in my life, many changing and letting go process. As they always say we learn from our life experience. By now I've learnt some things for create healthy and respectful boundaries:

- Don't interrupt a person when they are speaking;
- Ask permission (unless you know the person very well) before you give A hug;
- Never use racist or sexist language, even if you mean to be funny;
- Allow space in your relationship, and speak up if you feel your space is being invaded;
- Don't expect people to guess at what you are feeling or thinking--speak up;
- Avoid gossip;
- Listen attentively to what people are saying to you, or tell them if you are too busy to be pay enough attention;
- Don't stuff your resentments. Speak your truth as YOU see it and feel it;
- Don't assume what other people mean when they are speaking, ask if you are NOT sure 100%

The respect we give to each others and space we create to make a person feel safe are essential.

I am back!

Almost one year! I'm glad I come back and I know what I want for this blog~

It took me time to figure out what do I want to do with my glog, what do I want for my life. I do believe everyone comes to this world with a mission. for me, I figured it's to help other people to feel good about themselve.

I want to use my blog to show people how to dress out their best, how to dress to feel confidence, how to use less money to dress properly, how to spend money wise to invest on some timeless pieces.

For the past few years, I've been spent so much money on good and bad clothing, shoes, purses, accessories...

I've been fall into the trap of "on Sale", "designer brand", "last call"...

Here I'd like to use my own personal experience and other person's advise to show everyone how to dress wise.

Hope you will all enjoy and advise me if anything else I need to improve.

everything starts with baby step and my goal is to be able help as many people to have a more easy and more simple life!

Love life~

First post

I want to have my own blog for long time..

I love life, love arts, love fashion, love helping people.. everything can make me happy..

so I really want to share my experiences, thoughts and love to everyone in this little world~~

I wish everyone in this world can be happy and fabulous in their own ways~

"All glory comes from daring to begin"-Eugene F. Ware

Let's do this!!

Jinger